Making the Most of Semester Break

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The long awaited semester break is a time to relax, recharge, and catch up on some things that may have gotten away from you during the semester.  Whether you are on break for a month or a week, it’s important to make the most of whatever time you have.  For myself, I certainly need to recharge for next semester, but there are still plenty of items on my “to-do” list.  Here, I have organized some of the most important things semester break is for.

Relax

I don’t know about you guys, but I poured a lot of energy into this past semester.  Although it was a time of growth and learning, I know I have to plenty of recovering to do from all the energy I spent this semester.  No matter where you are at in life, sometimes you just need to take some time for YOU.  Here are my suggestions to relax over the break.

Coloring

Who doesn’t love coloring?  You can easily find printable coloring pages online, or you can get a coloring book full of pictures.  I am a real fan of adult coloring books, particularly these ones featuring verses of scripture.  Don’t forget to find your favorite package of markers or colored pencils.  I find coloring to be so relaxing, especially when I put on some good music!

Playing an instrument

Being on break, I’ve had more time to play my guitar.  Although I wouldn’t call myself very good by any means, it’s still something I like to do that relaxes me.  I you’re feeling up to it, this may be a great time to pick up a totally new musical skill.

TV or Movie Series

I bet I can count the number of movies I watched this semester on one hand.  Since being home I’ve watched the entire Harry Potter series with my family and now we are working on  The Lord of the Rings series (extended editions, of course!)  I didn’t have Netflix all semester, but in the last couple weeks of school, I caved in.  If you haven’t watched The Crown yet, I would 10/10 highly recommend!

Read!

You guys, what I wouldn’t give for a quality novel!  If you have any recommendations, please let me know in the comments!  Nevertheless, I plan to read a couple plays over break.  The first one on my list is Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?  The search for monologue material never ends!

Recharge

As much as I love lying around the house all day, I know I have to do a couple things to keep myself sharp for the next semester.  Don’t let this semester sneak up on you!  Take a few minutes to make a mental list of what would be most beneficial for you to recharge during break.

See some friends

Even though I may have a tendency to be a shut-in at times, I still think it’s important to see some familiar faces.  Especially if you are back in your hometown, try to get together with some old friends.  Coffee dates are fine, or maybe you and your friends would like to collaborate on a photoshoot.  An update to my headshots is the perfect opportunity to get together with friends.

Remember your goals

Along with all the exhaustion, I experienced this semester, I seemed to get a little off track with the overarching goals I’ve set in place.  Not so much my academic/performance goals, but the goals for my blog have suffered big time.  The time and distance away from school has helped me remember why I started this blog in the first place.  What are some goals you would like to get back to?

Take care of yourself

As tempting as Christmas dinner is, try not to eat it all winter break.  You will feel a lot better if you keep your health in mind over break (especially if you are living in the dorms, enjoy this break from cafeteria food!)  Maybe go on a run or take a hike with some friends, weather permitting.  I know I need to do a fair amount of stretching to stay in shape for when I get back into my dance classes this semester.  Don’t forget to drink plenty of water!

Get Ahead

Perhaps one of the most beneficial things about semester break is that it gives students a chance to catch up and even get ahead in some details.  Amidst the hustle of class schedules, there are those things on everybody’s to-do list that just seem to never get done.

Get organized

Maybe, you’re like me, and you find organizing to be relaxing.  Organize your room, your schedule, your school supplies, or perhaps your blog.  Tie up some loose ends and get a clearer perspective on your to-do list.

Get ready for school

I don’t have a very good track record with preparing for a semester before it actually starts, but this time around I am determined to get ahead.  It helps that I will likely be needing only two textbooks this semester!  This way, I have plenty of time to look for less expensive alternatives than just going to the school bookstore.  Have you applied for FAFSA yet?  FAFSA was actually available on October 1st, but I’m just getting around to it now… Nobody’s perfect.

So there you have it!  Just a couple things to focus on during this semester break.  Don’t forget to pet a lot of cats.  I hope you all get to relax and recover enough to have an amazing semester.  Let me know some of your favorite things to do over winter break!




Tips to Write the Perfect Paper

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It seems like no matter what your major is, your professors always find some way to utilize essay writing in their curriculum.  With finals just around the corner, it’s a good idea to brush up on the essential elements to writing a good paper.  Whether you feel like your writing skills are up to par, or you know you need to make some improvements, here are 10 tips to help you write the perfect college paper!

1. Define Your Goal

First things first, you need to know exactly what you are trying to achieve with your paper.  Is this a research essay?  Reflection paper?  What prompt have you been given for this paper?  I usually copy and paste the essay prompt to the top of the document while I’m writing a paper.  It helps me stay focused on what I’m trying to achieve so I don’t go off on any tangents.  Usually, you are trying to answer a question with a paper.  Make sure you know what question it is.

2. Always Create an Outline

Always, always, always create an outline.  This is usually the first thing I do after I determine my thesis.  Your outline should have at least three main points of your essay, and two or more sub-points to back these up.  I am usually not too picky with my outlines at first, and I always contain more points than I think I will actually need.

3. Write down everything

As you’re writing, don’t hesitate to write down anything that comes to mind; as long as you keep it organized.  You never know what may become of a crazy idea that comes to you on a whim.  You can always edit things out later if it doesn’t fit in your paper.

4. Plan to write more than what’s needed

I would much rather edit out superfluous information than scramble to meet a word count on an essay.  Plan to write more than what you need, then edit it down to only your best writing.  Sometimes I write a complete paragraph and then realize it really doesn’t belong in my essay, in which case I’m glad I planned to write some extra material.

5. Save introduction for last

This may be standard operating procedure for many people, but that’s because it works.  I much prefer waiting to see what my paper turns out to be, then write an introduction that reflects it.  The same goes for conclusions and transition paragraphs if you plan to write those.

6. Avoid certain words

You should know if your professor is comfortable with you using first person words like “I” and “me.”  However, you may find your writing improves dramatically if you completely nix words like “very” and “really” as well.  Sure, it may seem easy to write the same way you speak, but your professors may not agree.  Instead of saying something like “I was really excited to see the show” try thinking a bit more professional sounding, such as “the audience was buzzing with anticipation of the performance.”  Some other words I try to avoid in my writing are “also” and “that.”  It’s made a huge difference in the quality of work I produce!

7. Substantial supporting evidence

No matter what you are writing, keep in mind to always back up your ideas.  It should be a constant call and response of claims and evidence.  This applies to any type of paper you are writing, but particularly pay attention to this when writing argumentative essays

8. Take breaks

Maybe you are the kind of person who can focus on something for hours on end, but I definitely am not.  Breaks are a strategic way to keep your mind focused on the task at hand.  Sometimes I can be responsible with my time and how long I am on break, but other times I require more discipline.  If you are really struggling with writing a paper, try giving yourself a short break every 15-30 minutes.  (If your break involves Pinterest, you might want to time yourself to only a few minutes!)

9. Get some feedback

After you’ve finished your rough draft, it’s a good idea to get a second pair of eyes to look at your paper.  You can grab a friend, your mom, or even check out some resources online!  One such service is Analyze.AcademicHelp.net.  Their service will help catch all the little things you miss in any paper such as proper spelling, punctuation, possessives, and more.

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I gave this service a try on an essay I had to write for a theatre class.  They caught several things I missed when I proofread my paper.  There is an actual person who will read over your paper and make corrections.  You can even correspond with them in the chatbox on the right and ask questions about your paper.  If you are looking for a second opinion on your paper, I would recommend checking Analyze.AcademicHelp.net!

10. Learn from your mistakes

After you turn in your paper, there is really nothing you can do.  Whether this is a relief or more cause for worry, it’s important to look at the work you’ve done and learn.  With every paper you write, get as much feedback as you can and apply it to the next paper you write.  Your writing skills will improve immensely with time and effort!




Ultimate Fall Checklist!

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I think we can all agree that fall is a pretty marvelous time of year.  With winter around the corner, I wanted to provide you with the ultimate fall checklist to make the most of this beloved season!

If you do any of these let me know!  Is there anything missing that you think should be on the list?  Leave it in the comments below!  Make sure to pin this image and share the fall spirit!

Follow me on Instagram to see the fall activities that I’m up to.

 




Stressed Out College Student Resources

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This is the time of year when students everywhere are getting stressed out.  Not only is this unhealthy, it’s unnecessary to stay stressed!  Many college students have made it to graduation in one piece, and you can too!  The key is to get a handle on stress and keep a clear head.

Luckily, we have some lovely ladies who have already put a lot of thought into handling stress!  The college blogging community is a great resource for students no matter where you are or what you study.  Stay calm.  Don’t stress.  You can do this!

Don’t Freak Out

Whether you’ve just started to feel the stress of the semester, or you are up to your neck in papers and tests, this is the first thing to remember: don’t freak out!  Anxiety will not make things any easier for you.  The following posts are really helpful for reminding us all to not freak out when the workload starts piling up.

Handling A Busy Semester from buckeyebliss.com

Dealing with Overwhelm in College from collegewithcaitlyn.com

Productivity

Next, comes productivity.  Being organized and efficient with your time is so important for preventing stress in the first place.  Taking a few minutes to get organized can really help the amount of work you get done in a day.  These posts are all about organization and productivity.  Hopefully, this will help you prevent stress in the future!

How I Stay Organized from collegewithcaitlyn.com

9 Productivity Tools You Must Have on Your Home Office or Study Desk from michelleadamsblog.com

10 Ways to Be More Productive Right Now from laughswithoutfear.com (that’s right here!)

Destress

Honey, you need to take some time for yourself every now and then.  If your school work is taking so much of your time and energy that you are neglecting yourself, you need to rethink your priorities.  School won’t help you out in the long run if you destroy yourself in the process.  These posts should give you some ideas on how to destress and take care of yourself.

Activities to Unwind and De-Stress during the Semester from thecosmicroad.com

5 Things to do When You’re Stressed from kaylablogs.com

Great Ways to De-stress from lilieandviolets.wordpress.com

 




My Focus Words for This Season

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Fall is upon us!  With September comes the changing of seasons.  For me, I am now fully in the season known as my sophomore year of college, and it has certainly been a transition!  I am sure many of you are entering new seasons of your own.  I’d like to share with you something that may make all of our transitions a bit easier.

This past summer I decided on two focus words.  One word I would be giving up, the other I would be incorporating into my life.  I knew that choosing these words didn’t mean an immediate change in my life.  I knew I would fail at times, but this was something I chose to go through with God.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is- His good, pleasing, and perfect will.”  -Romans 12:2

Changing our character is not something we can do by our own power.  God wants this to be about how He can change us into better versions of ourselves.  Choosing focus words for a season is simply a way to channel our thoughts and focus our actions toward something specific.

My Words For Last Season

This past summer I knew that God had to do some serious work on my heart if I was going to do my job as a Bible Camp counselor.  I was feeling completely drained from my last semester of college and I found it hard to invest in my relationship with God.  I didn’t feel like I was in a place to do God’s work.  My focus words were a way that I could reconnect with God.

Resentment

In a college setting, you are bound to run into people that you don’t understand.  No matter what you are studying, I guarantee that you will be running into people that you don’t get along with.  However, I thought that the resentment I was so ready to give out to others would suddenly go away once I got to camp.  The camp community is the best community I’ve been a part of, so surely I wouldn’t resent any of my coworkers, right?  Wrong.

If resentment is a problem for you, you must first realize that it is your problem and not anybody else’s.  This resentment I was harboring was poisoning the relationships I was building with my coworkers.  I grew continually concerned about how I was feeling towards.  The reason I found it easy to resent my coworkers was because I was used to resenting others.  I had allowed resentment to be a part of how I understood people, and that didn’t change just because I wasn’t at college anymore.

So resentment was the word I chose to give up to God this summer.  Every time I felt annoyed with someone, I would pray for God to take this resentment away from me.  Before long, I found that the familiar feeling of resentment was gone!  I can vividly see how God answered my prayers and changed my heart.

Spirit

Going into this season of my life, I remember believing that I was not someone that God spoke to very much.  This was false thinking on my part.  I now firmly believe that God speaks to everyone, we just have to learn to listen to him.  This summer I wanted to learn how to listen to God.

So I prayed to become closer with the Holy Spirit, and wouldn’t you know it, it worked!  I recently read that we should pray as though God has already answered our prayers.  This is especially true when it comes to knowing God more.  That is all He wants for us: to be continually pursuing Him!  While I experienced a lot of growth in my relationship with God this summer, it doesn’t mean I won’t stop praying for the Holy Spirit in this new season.  I am much more aware of how God talks to me now, and I can’t wait to see where we will go together!

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My Words For This Season

Now I am in a very different season of life.  Every new season deserves a new focus.  For me, it seemed obvious that these are the words I am meant to focus on this season.  I know it won’t be easy, and I will definitely fail at times, but with God’s help, I know anything is possible!

Shame

I think this is a more prolific word for embarrassment, or in Delaney-terms, awkwardness.  I don’t want to be embarrassed about living out my faith.  The challenge is that I don’t really know what that looks like.  What does it look like to truly live a life without shame?  I am excited to see what God does this season as I surrender this word to Him.

Peace

I am so excited that this is the word I will be taking on this school year!  I have already witnessed a whirlwind of emotion and stress with me and my classmates, but I have chosen to focus on He who give us peace instead!  When I feel the weight of this world (or at least the weight of my classwork) I cling to this verse-

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” -John 14:27

I am so excited to see what God will do in this season of my life!  Is this something that you have ever done?  If so, I want to hear about what it was like for you to choose focus words for a season of your life!  What words have you chosen for this season?

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