I am generally known as a positive and happy person. I firmly believe that positivity is a choice and we always have the option to see the best in things.
Well, recently I have been failing at this. I mean F-A-I-L-I-N-G.
I’m honestly shocked at myself. I am usually the first person to brush things off and choose to see the good in every situation. But the end of this semester has brought out the pessimist in me. Now, everything seems to be getting on my nerves and I am just ready to be DONE.
Consider this post to be a manifestation of my decision to choose positivity! I’m sure I am not the only one who is fed-up with this semester, but it is never too late to look on the bright side. If you are over this semester, just listen these ideas on making a comeback to the bright side. Keep in mind that I have recently been failing at all of theses things, but all this negativity ends today! Today I choose to see the better side of things.
1. Recognize that you have a choice
It is one of my core beliefs that we get to choose how our character evolves. Being pessimistic and negative is the easier path to choose, but it says something about your character when you choose to see things in a way that will help you in the long run. You will be happier when you choose positivity, but you will also be learning discipline to make the right choices.
2. Get over yourself
Sorry to sound harsh, but when you complain about everything it’s just another way to channel your selfishness. Complaining about your lot in life is really just a method of fitting self-righteousness into your day. Get over yourself. You are better than all of this. Move on and devote your energies to more important things. Sorry.
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3. Turn to gratitude
Chances are that you are attending college because you or someone in your family has the financial ability to support you while you are at college. Even if you are taking out loans or have been granted scholarships, going to college means that somebody is spending money on you. Take a moment to appreciate the investment that is being made in your education and your future.
What about this? You live in and age and a country that allows you to go to college regardless of your race, gender, or background. Not everybody in the world is as lucky as we are. College students need to find some appreciation for those who have fought to make education available for us throughout our lives. We are truly fortunate to have this opportunity.
4. Try to learn something new
We have all come to college to learn something, however our main goal most of the time is to simply pass our classes. Keep your mind engaged in these last few weeks and actually try to learn something new. Take an interest in your classes and really try to learn something for the sake of learning. You can always learn things outside your classrooms too (I’m learning how to be a blogger, and let me tell you, it is fascinating!)
5. Take care of yourself
“We must take care of ourselves before we can show compassion to others.” So take care of yourself! You know the drill: get enough sleep, drink water, eat healthy, exercise, watch Netflix. Try to not commit yourself to too many tasks. (I am looking at you fellow bloggers!) Make a clear distinction between work-time and play-time. 🙂
6. Remember, You will definitely feel like this again
I’ve had it up to my neck with this semester, but chances are all my problems won’t be solved with the ending of the term. There will always be something out there that gets under our skin and stresses us out, so why submit to a bad attitude? Take this as an opportunity to train yourself to get through hard times. When it is all over, make sure you are proud of how well you handled this semester. 🙂
Even from writing this post, I already feel better about making it through the semester. I hope that you will join me in choosing to see the bright side of things. Don’t waste a minute that you have on this earth because you want the semester to be over. Even though summer is coming, good things are happening right now- embrace it!
Am I right? Are you feeling kind of bleh at this point in the semester too? Let me know in the comments! What are you doing to turn things around?